Nathan Hale, 21, was hanged as a spy by the British in New York. In 1776, during the Revolutionary War, Capt. On this date: In 1761, King George III and his wife, Charlotte, were crowned in Westminster Abbey. 22, 2014, the United States and five Arab nations launched airstrikes against the Islamic State group in Syria, sending waves of planes and Tomahawk cruise missiles against an array of targets. Email Carolyn at THE ACES BOBBY WOLFF TODAY IN HISTORY Today is Wednesday, Sept. Now consider a follow-up to ex- plore larger control issues in the family dynamics and to find your words as a hedge against losing yourself. You worked effective- ly with a therapist, good stuff controllers often suck loved ones into peacemaking roles. Your hus- band especially lit up the page, but you, your daugh- ter and son-in-law also did to some degree, maybe re- flecting learned behaviors or defense mechanisms. So: If hints of control issues appeared in neon, your letter would be Times Square. But disapproval is another instrument of control, of asserting that you know better than others good or good for them, and expect compliance. (Four years?) Healthy people also wield over fellow adults. Or if they do react with anger (since we all have our moments) they recover quickly and apol- ogize for the outburst and refocus on the substance of our differences. (We all have our moments.) They will respond, sure, but not react with anger or outrage or oth- er big punitive emotions, the kind that force us to think twice about saying something ever again that the person want to hear. The people I trust, who are honest, who have sound emotion- al regulation, who accept me as I am instead of trying to change me, are the ones who erupt at things I say, even the stupid or inflammatory things. When I notice myself tensing up and scripting my words in an effort not to touch off emotional consequenc- es with someone, my aha moment that involved with someone controlling. The most useful in- sight I have, though, is emotional and from my own experience. Now to overstep the bounds of your question, if I may: talked a lot about controlling people here. Providing a chance to respond before you act. You are neither ask- ing his permission nor dropping a fait accompli. That you plan to meet your grand- child, when, for how long, and when buy tick- ets. What are the right words for me to say to him be- fore I buy myself a plane ticket? What to Say What to Say: There are no for this. My hus- band gets upset whenev- er I bring up the subject. I now have a good relationship with each of them. But I took responsibility, I showed remorse, I forgave. I pressured one, then the other, to make up. I kept calling and talking to her for a year before she took me back. Her hus- band threatened that we would never see her again unless we apologized. When she decided to remarry and move there permanently, her father disapproved of her choice. She has not spoken to her father (my husband) for four years. 6A Wednesday, SeptemCarolyn: My daughter is having a baby. She is survived by her loving husband, Norris Moline Miller daughter, Gina (Robert) Cantrell, and grandchildren, Matthew and Bridget Miller, Her family will not be holding a service at this time. Jennie was preceded in death by two sons, infant Dean and Mark Norris (Diane) Miller. She was always friendly and outgoing as well as very hardworking. She was a devout member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Grand Junction, CO. Jennie operated her own Salon as a hairdresser for over 55 years and spent time working with her daughter as well. She was born February 16, 1927, in Chicago, IL, and was the daughter of Alfonso and Catherine Oliva. Obituaries Genevieve Marie Miller FebruSeptemGenevieve Miller, age 94, passed away September 16, 2021, in her sleep. Visitation 5 8 p.m., September 23, at Chapel. Kathy Valdez, 64, of Palisade, died September 13, 2021. Jason Sievers, 50, of Grand Junction, died September 17, 2021, at St. Calvin Dean Whitman, 61, of Grand Junction, died September 5, 2021, at home. 23, at Callahan-Edfast, Services 10 a.m., Sept. Lives Lived Death Notices Arnold Medina, 68, of Grand Junction, died September 14, 2021.
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